what does it really mean? who are we to judge our parents and wat type of children are we? so wat when our parents hit us? do they earn that right cos they gave us our lives? are we allowed to be resentful? in this case who should be the one to say sorry first? when both are at fault. yest i came up with this analogy..when the car hits a jay crossing pedestrain at the first instant its always the driver at fault.. cos he didnt see, cos he was speeding etc..did anyone rem that the pedestrain was not supposed to be jay crossing? in every  fight i believe both parties are in the wrong, same as the break up / down of any realtionship.. it takes 2 hands to clap!