Thots of a Bear....my ramblings,mumbles....

Casio Edfice…

Bear Bear — Thu, 22 May 2008 01:04:11 +0000

i like!!! affordable & reliable anytime… most of us grew up with casios… way before baby G came along… Excellent gift… i bought one yesterday with brown leather strap, square off white face and all the dials inside are working… it has day, month, date & 24 hour time..can be worn for work! altho i bought it on impluse, i still think it was a gd buy! yaay

of frogs,goldfishes & mossies

Bear Bear — Thu, 22 May 2008 01:00:25 +0000

Met wiffy &bon2 n had dinner at maggie thai’ restuarant at bug-is… i didnt know most of us has perverse habits… haha

WT does the buring, wiffy performs the serious car accident experiement, P does the pulling out of the stinger & i put them on lighted mosquito coils..

Cakes…

Bear Bear — Wed, 21 May 2008 03:13:02 +0000

has anyone tried aloe vera cakes?

Karma…

Bear Bear — Wed, 21 May 2008 01:15:07 +0000

Was speaking with Liv on something and this is what she said and i edited it alittle…

A lot of things r due to karma… who doesn’t want 母慈子孝 but more often den not, unconsciously, we influenced our offspring’s’ values over time and hence the behavior

How we express our love and to what extent we let them indulge in their materialistic pursuits will affect their values too

though all of us have inborn personalities from infancy, i think to a larger extent, it’s upbringing. ( 先天，后天) there is no one size fit all formula.
dealing with parents and children is similar to situational leadership, suiting leadership style to leadership needs of the individuals

We can never have the perfect husband wife/ girl/ boyfriend… parents child even friends relationship… in life as we grow older, we learn to compromise and give in… at 18 we are that hot blooded child, at 25 we are at our youth we live our lives envious of our neighbours, the grass is always greener.. but how much effort and pain has been put in to nurture that grass to make it greener nobody sees..

There are certain relationships that have 今生没来世。especially when dealing with our siblings or our parents…Whether we want to let ourselves be happy or not, its our choice, you can choose to be generous or you can choose to be petty… but at the end, think carefully who is the one really unhappy? and who is carrying that burden? is it me or the other party at the same time i ask the same question are we totally ” Faultless”?

一个人的行李-

Bear Bear — Tue, 20 May 2008 07:18:37 +0000

i rather liked this song very much.. from penny dai, this sounds very livia..hahaha

心情好or心情坏
有什么好假装
反正天若真的塌下来
我自己扛
天气好or天气坏
有什么好紧张
反正下一秒钟的我
开始开始流浪
我要一个人去东京铁塔看夜景
我要一个人去威尼斯看电影
我要一个人去阳明山上看海芋
拍偶像剧
我要一个人去纽约纯粹看雪景
我要一个人去巴黎喝咖啡写信
我要一个人的旅行
一个人透透气
dodo do dodo do ..
向右转or向左拐
有什么不一样
反正每一条未知的路都有未来
我和谁在谈恋爱
有什么大惊小怪
反正下一秒钟的我
早已早已离开
我要一个人在希腊梦见苏格拉底
我要一个人的通宵看完鲁迅的背影
我要一个人呆呆的在浴缸里
思考阮玲玉阮玲玉
我要一个人的北京探望孟姜女
我要一个人的书局和志摩谈情
我要一个人的旅行
一个人彻底～
心情好or心情坏
有什么好假装
一个人的旅行一个人的行李
一个人的旅行一个人的空气
一个人的旅行一个人到底…

孝

Bear Bear — Tue, 20 May 2008 07:14:19 +0000

what does it really mean? who are we to judge our parents and wat type of children are we? so wat when our parents hit us? do they earn that right cos they gave us our lives? are we allowed to be resentful? in this case who should be the one to say sorry first? when both are at fault. yest i came up with this analogy..when the car hits a jay crossing pedestrain at the first instant its always the driver at fault.. cos he didnt see, cos he was speeding etc..did anyone rem that the pedestrain was not supposed to be jay crossing? in every fight i believe both parties are in the wrong, same as the break up / down of any realtionship.. it takes 2 hands to clap!

DRAMA

Bear Bear — Thu, 15 May 2008 03:35:02 +0000

wow lau eh, sick just go home, no need to wait for boss to come back from meeting to report that HE is on MC.. got 5 uclers and cant cope with the baby cos wife not helping… wat shit!!! dun bring ur personal problems to work! dun play on your boss sympathy on such things.. i dun know i used to manage ppl, u can say that i m unfeeling or mean..but hello u are a man, you are supposed to manage such crisis urself! SHIT!

自有留人處。。

Bear Bear — Thu, 15 May 2008 03:15:46 +0000

this sentence frm my fave novelist.. zhang xiao xian.. is for someone.. be strong GAL…

有些事情是不可以勉強的。戀愛是雙程路，單戀也該有一條底線，到了底線，就是退出的時候。這條路行不通，你該想想另一條路，而不是在路口徘徊。這裏不留人，自有留人處。

to be cont from my earlier post

Bear Bear — Thu, 15 May 2008 03:11:46 +0000

From 张小娴。。　想念你，不找你

我們也許可以同時愛兩個人，又被兩個人所愛。遺憾的是，我們只能跟其中一個廝守到老.

当他爱你比你爱他多。。

Bear Bear — Thu, 15 May 2008 02:55:59 +0000

在爱情里面，必定要分出高低　胜负，这是真的！

两个人在一起是前世修来。。还是因为有人讨债　又有人还债？

到底是谁招惹谁了？